that's a world of difference... not only do I not know anyone that's been murdered, I've never seen a real gun except held by police officers and soldiers.
I really feel for you, for your losses and also for having to leave your home under such circumstances. I would hate to have to leave Australia for good, I love it so much, but if it came down to a choice such as the one you made, I know I would have to do the same.
It's so sad that Africa is still in such turmoil - I hope there is a better future for your homeland.
Michaelie
BTW, can I ask why you chose to bring your family to Australia? Did you at least have some friends or family here?
Hey Michaelie
Thanks for your compassion.
Actually, we had no friends or family here - we chose Australia because it's climate is similar to South Africa's, it has a stable economy, good public schools, is child-friendly and has a good social welfare system and is relatively safe. I had never been to visit here before I arrived to stay - with two tiny kids on my hip! And a year after we got here, Bali happened, and we thought we'd made a mistake - nowhere is safe.
Now we have friends and a great life here, and we are so grateful to be here. But it saddens me more than I can say that our decision was unequivocally the right one. Africa deserves so much better.
Jo
My very first "serious" boyfriend whom I remained close to for years was murdered with his wife in Manila in front of their 5 year old son....it was a tragedy and a terrible shock...I empathise with you...x Miss Nomer
8. February 10th 2008 @ 11:26. Anonymous Says:
We too do not personally know of anyone who has been murdered, I too have never seen a gun and never heard a gun shot and I live in Cape Town.I guess its whether you choose to live in fear or whether you chose to detach yourself from the fear of others.Its a personal journey I gues]
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It's so sad that Africa is still in such turmoil - I hope there is a better future for your homeland.
Michaelie
BTW, can I ask why you chose to bring your family to Australia? Did you at least have some friends or family here?
Thanks for your compassion.
Actually, we had no friends or family here - we chose Australia because it's climate is similar to South Africa's, it has a stable economy, good public schools, is child-friendly and has a good social welfare system and is relatively safe. I had never been to visit here before I arrived to stay - with two tiny kids on my hip! And a year after we got here, Bali happened, and we thought we'd made a mistake - nowhere is safe.
Now we have friends and a great life here, and we are so grateful to be here. But it saddens me more than I can say that our decision was unequivocally the right one. Africa deserves so much better.
Jo
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You're right - nowhere is completely safe, but I hope Australia will always be a haven and a home for you and your family... and for all of us.
My very first "serious" boyfriend whom I remained close to for years was murdered with his wife in Manila in front of their 5 year old son....it was a tragedy and a terrible shock...I empathise with you...x Miss Nomer